Geometric patterns are all the rage in wedding decor right now – from cakes, to linen, and even lighting options!
I know it’s important to save where you can when it comes to weddings, but keep these quick tips in mind when negotiating with vendors:
- Don’t be unreasonable: A vendor who charges $2000 for something is not going to give it to you for $1000, so don’t insult them by asking for discounts.
- Avoid making threats: Saying you’re going to go with another vendor if your demands aren’t met probably won’t result in a deal.
- Don’t lie: The wedding industry is very small and most vendors know each other. Vendors talk, so don’t go around saying, ‘Well, so and so is charging me $1000 less,’ if it isn’t true.
- Don’t compare vendors who don’t provide the same type of service or product: You wouldn’t expect to pay for a VW and get a Mercedes – the same is true for wedding vendors. Sometimes you can expect to pay more because of name and reputation, but more often you’ll pay more for experience and expertise.
- Don’t beat around the bush with your budget: When you make it a secret, a vendor may propose something that is way out of your price range. A good wedding vendor will give you suggestions on how to use their services while staying within your budget, or they may determine that they aren’t the best fit for you. If that’s the case, ask them for recommendations on another vendor who may work better for you.”
There’s no doubt that you’ll be using social media to announce your engagement {and post about other wedding related events}, but before clicking “post” check out a few quick tips below:
Tips for the Bride & Groom
- Pick up the phone – please call your parents, grandparents, and closest friends before announcing to the whole world that you’re engaged. Believe me, they’ll appreciate hearing it straight from you rather than Facebook.
- Posting pics of the ring – by all means, post photos of that gorgeous sparkler! Don’t share details about the carat or price though.
- Send out printed invites for the main event – e-vites are 100% acceptable for pre & post wedding parties, but printed invites are a must for the ceremony & reception. Plus, printed invites are a great way to give guests a taste of what to expect at the wedding.
Tips for the Guests
- Private message wedding questions – to avoid any awkwardness for those uninvited, send any wedding questions through email or a private message.
- Put the phone away – couples spend hundreds of hours planning a soiree that guests will enjoy, so try your best to keep the phone in your purse or pocket. It’s okay to check it every once in a while, but try to avoid responding to emails and texts or even posting a play-by-play of the wedding.
- Follow directions for the RSVP – if you’re supposed to send back a pre-printed RSVP card, don’t send your RSVP via email, text, or phone call. It’s likely to get lost in the mix.
I am loving all dresses and cardigans from Ruche! They’re so feminine and perfect for spring weddings =)
Nothing goes better with the color of the year {it’s emerald, btw} than gold! Think opulence, glamour, and lots of sparkle!
